Today was nice, I was able to hang out with some friends I haven't seen in awhile, let alone together, which they are known for. But it was nice, I had a pear/blackberry cider that was awesome, and there was a full couple seconds when I could appreciate Dark Beer...(the small female who ordered the drink said, think coffee, and really dark chocolate, and it was pretty good, minus the head). Now if I was cool, I'd remember what it was called cuz I was invited to a beer tasting and I have hardly any pallet. eh.
OMGoodness. I'm stoked. I hated staying in All last weekend, and this week I have something to do like every day of the week with different people. *is excited*
Day 5: I have to have the last word. Shit, shit, shit, I have to have the last word. I was pointed that out by someone recently and only after tonight, being fully aware I had been told that recently, I felt like a douche. I DO always have to have the last word. I don't mean to discredit people, but I imagine I have made some people feel that way, which is super unfortunate as the last thing I want to do is push people away.
I need to keep quiet. If someone wants to know, they'll ask right? Maybe I can have the last word, but only if I make it the end of a question to keep conversation going...OOOOO!! Challenge accepted.
I always have the last word when I want it, but in my head. It is just as satisfying as saying it aloud, but without the nasty side effects. :)
ReplyDeleteI think it depends on what the last word is...if it's benefiting you or them that matters. I think when you are trying to be empathetic, that's not necessarily a bad thing. When you are trying to "one up them" then it is a BAD thing.
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